Why can't I find a pushy girl?

So I promised something a little more existential. I guess I should probably deliver. I have no idea if this is actually existential, but I'm typing it up anyway.
It feels much later then it is right now. Probably because by this point I'm so used to sleeping at 3 or something. It'll probably occur again tonight. I'm shooting for 2:15-2:30. We'll see how it goes.
I need a push right now
Theres a lot of work that I need to do, but that I don't actually want to do. I need someone here to push me to get everything done. I can start things by myself, sure, but I need someone there to make sure that I continue to work. Right now, I just don't have that person.
I wish I did, sure. This whole thing brings me back to looking for the right girl. I need her to be next to me, telling me to get my work done. I dont want someone who'll control my life, but I want someone who'll give me that push when I need it.
Which leads me to my ultimate point-
Why is it so hard to find a pushy girl? I dislike the gender stereotype of the guys having to do all the work. Why can't a girl initiate something for once? Say hello, talk to me or flirt sometime? As a guy, especially a sometimes shy one, its hard to talk to girls, specifically ones you dont really know and find attractive. So you end up sitting there, not saying much at all to anyone; at which point you feel more down on yourself and then you don't end up doing anything.
Basically, what I'm trying to say is- ladies, don't let guys do all the work. Give them a hand, and you never know what you're going to find. Maybe that quiet kid is really the nicest kid ever who just wants to take care of you. *cough* hint *cough* But you wouldn't know it cause sometimes he's just a little too shy, and a little too afraid of rejection.

The Kid
~Platinum